UPDATE 1/6/23: after replacing the relay I never had the problem again. I believe it was shorting causing electrical interference with the ecu. I have been having issues with no data showing on hand held and truck shutting off. I believe have ruled out electronic interference. I got stuck in the middle of the road today and only thing that helped was to unplug the main relay in the harness and put it back in. I got home and put a new relay in and no more issues so far. I have been running it for about an hour now turning it on and off.