Relationship Expert: Why You Keep Having Same Fight - Figs O'Sullivan

For people who give a sh*t about their relationship. ;) Did you know that couples who… …try to "fix" each other grow in resentment and shame. …"problem-solve" in the short term experience repeat issues. …develop surface-level skills feel helpless against persistent problems. In Modern times, not many children are getting there needs met, I believe this to be at the root... We attract what is familiar to us! Does Your Partner Lack Empathy? Why It's NOT healthy for one person to take all the responsibility for eg a trigger! Why is it important to connect/agree/focus on the sadness that we are not where we want to be! Acceptance? "Is your competency, keeping you out of intimacy"? Website: https://empathi.com/ Take The Quiz: https://empathi.com/quiz 'The Conflict Solution Course': https://get.empathi.com/ == Email Chris For Discount Code: [email protected] CONNECT w/ Figs YouTube:    / @figsandteale   Instagram:   / empathinow   Facebook:   / empathinow   Twitter:   / empathinow   JOIN CHRIS === Online Mens Community - https://bit.ly/3WHLlKU Mens Retreats - https://bit.ly/3WDYK6S PODCAST COMMUNITY == TELEGRAM: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast LOCALS: https://bit.ly/3JZTPXe CHAPTERS: === 0:00 - Intro 1:16 - Why Do Some Have No Empathy? 4:30 - Are Men Too Empathic? 14:57 - What Is Empathy Squared! 15:07 - So We Are All Hurting, What Next? 22:20 - Why Its Not About Communicating! 26:19 - Attachment Styles Continued 28:11 - Are YOU More Of The Problem? 38:43 - What's Really Going On? 40:34 - Chris Is Not Getting it! 44:16 - Again, It's NOT about Communication! 49:42 - Competency Is The Enemy Of Intimacy! 52:52 - When You Are 'Doing The Work' But They Are NOT. 1:57:49 - Pro-actice or Re-active Therapy? 1:05:18 - Is It Time To End The Relationship? 1:09:40 - Trauma Bonds - Are You In One?