How the narcissist uses your child against you. (parental alienation)

In this episode, you will learn 5 ways that the narcissist uses the child against you This is called parental alienation If you like this content, don’t forget to hit the subscribe button and hit the notification bell so every time I upload a new video you will be the first to know. Cesare Parese says We don't remember days, we remember moments and if you are a parent that experienced emotional abuse or trauma as a child or were used as a weapon by a narcissistic parent to alienate you from the other, then I know you want more than anything to not have that happen to your child. In my twenty years as a trauma recovery expert and my own experiences with codependency and dealing with narcissistic abuse, it is a very common pattern to choose narcissistic relationships, often unconsciously if we came from a family where there was emotional and narcissistic abuse. We live what we learn but before we get started, just know if you find yourself in a narcissistic relationship, you will heal and you will come out stronger on the other side of your situation with the right support. So what is Parental Alienation Syndrome? When a separated parent convinces their child that the other parent is bad, evil or worthless and will go to any length to sabotage a healthy relationship with your child. Parental Alienation is a form of emotional child abuse. Children instinctively love both parents and identify with both as part of themselves. They feel immense stress when that love is threatened. When a child is told that one of their parents is bad, they feel shame, uncertainty, fear and guilt as if they are bad and wrong. It is critical to a child’s sense of security and self-esteem that they be allowed to love both of their biological parents. This doesn’t mean you have to condone bad behavior. This is when a narcissist overtly brainwashes the child to reject you and stay in control which puts your child in a very uncomfortable position where they feel like they have to take sides. They feel that they cannot talk to you about how they're feeling, for fear of the other using what they say against them if you confront them. The narcissist is so self-centred, it's their way or the highway, it's all about them, they're always right and they never take any accountability for their actions. MY WEBSITE: www.sarahjanefarrell.com MY PODCASTS Healthy Body, Quiet Mind   / sarahjanefarrell   FACEBOOK GROUP:  / 29764.  . PET HEALTH & WELLNESS: FACEBOOK PAGE:   / sjfarrellanimal   VITAL ANIMAL HEALTH FACEBOOK GROUP:  / 20534.  . PLEASE READ If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room. DISCLAIMER: All content and media on the Your Health Website is created and published online for informational purposes only. It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice and should not be relied on as health or personal advice. Always seek the guidance of your doctor or other qualified health professional with any questions you may have regarding your health or a medical condition. Never disregard the advice of a medical professional, or delay in seeking it because of something you have watched or read on this platform. External (outbound) links to other websites or educational material (e.g. pdf’s etc…) that are not explicitly created by Sarah-Jane Farrell are followed at your own risk. Under no circumstances is Sarah-Jane Farrell responsible for the claims of third party websites or educational providers. #narcissistic abuse #parental alienation # child abuse #how the narcissistist uses your child against you #narcissistic abuse recovery #co-parenting with a narcissist