"AVOIDANTS AND LOVE: WHY THEY PUSH YOU AWAY BUT STILL WANT YOU" – by Mathew Hussey

#avoidantattachment #relationshipadvice #mathewhussey #datingtips #emotionalintelligence #loveadvice Description In this powerful 17-minute motivational speech, renowned relationship coach Mathew Hussey dives deep into the psychology of avoidant attachment styles and answers the question: "Why do avoidants push you away but still want you?" If you’ve ever been confused by someone who seems interested in love but pulls away the moment things get close, this video will help you understand what's really going on. Learn how to deal with emotionally unavailable partners, how to maintain your self-worth, and when to walk away for good. Whether you're currently in a confusing relationship, healing from a breakup, or trying to break toxic patterns, this speech offers clarity, empowerment, and emotional healing. Emojis 00:00 – 🎬 Introduction: The Avoidant Dilemma 01:45 – 💔 Why They Pull Away After Getting Close 03:50 – 🧠 The Psychology Behind Avoidant Attachment 06:20 – 😢 Emotional Inconsistency & Mixed Signals 08:15 – 🚨 Red Flags to Watch For 10:05 – 🧭 Setting Healthy Boundaries 12:30 – 💬 How to Communicate With an Avoidant Partner 14:00 – 🛑 When to Let Go & Move On 16:10 – 🌟 Final Words of Empowerment Hashtags #mathewhussey, #avoidantattachment , #relationshipadvice , #datingtips , #emotionalintelligence , #loveadvice , #selfworth , #toxicrelationships , #attachmentstyles , #selfgrowth , #relationshipcoach , #emotionalavailability , #mentalhealthawareness , #boundariesmatter , #motivation Keywords avoidant attachment, why avoidants pull away, emotional availability, love and fear, mathew hussey speech, how to deal with avoidants, dating advice, motivational relationship speech, avoidant partner, relationship dynamics, toxic love, healing relationships, understanding love, emotional detachment, insecure attachment, dating an avoidant, mixed signals in love, love psychology, avoidant traits, relationship growth Why Watch This Video Understand the behavior of avoidantly attached individuals Get practical advice for handling emotional distance in relationships Heal from confusing or inconsistent love experiences Improve communication and emotional intelligence Gain the confidence to walk away when needed Learn to set boundaries and protect your energy Discover how to attract secure and available partners Avoid repeating painful patterns in love Become more self-aware in dating Feel validated and seen in your experience