Welcome back to the It Girl Playbook! In today’s episode, I’m sharing some tips and lessons that have helped turn me from shy and socially awkward into someone who can hold deeper, more charming conversations. Charisma isn’t something you’re born with — it’s a skill. And the beauty about skills, is that they can be practiced and mastered. By the end of this video, you’ll know how to make people feel seen, valued, and drawn to your presence. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:35 70/30 Rule 2:42 Show Genuine Interest 4:25 "You're the Expert" Frame 6:14 Have Stories 8:25 Mirror Emotions 10:12 Be Playful 12:11 Final Message Join the It Girl Newsletter: https://itgirlplaybook.beehiiv.com/su... Get The Playbook Mini (yes, it's free): https://itgirlplaybook.com/products/t... For more glow up videos, check out our sister channel: @ItGirlGlowUp #ItGirlPlaybook #DaleCarnegie #HowToWinFriendsAndInfluencePeople #Oprah #Psychology #Influence #HumanNature #MagneticAura #MagneticEnergy #FeminineEnergy #SelfImprovement #EmotionalIntelligence #Charisma #FeminineEnergy #LevelUp #SocialSkills #Confidence #GlowUp