If you’ve ever thought, “I'm showing love to my partner, so why don’t they feel it?” This episode is for you. This week on Laugh Lines, we’re talking to the actual human who gave us the phrase “love language.” Yes. The one, the only... Dr. Gary Chapman. Dr. Chapman is the man behind the famous book, The Five Love Languages. He joins us to talk about what happens when you and your person are speaking completely different love languages, and why dialect of a love language is also important. 'Acts of Service' might be my personal version of romance, but that's not Penn's. It's important to understand that how you show someone love doesn't mean they feel love. We discuss what to do when your partner’s love language is the one you’re worst at, how love languages shift in different seasons, and the five apology languages (including why “I’m sorry if you felt that way” absolutely does not count!) If you’ve ever wondered why you feel deeply loved when someone washes the dishes or why you just want someone to sit down and actually talk to you… this conversation might give you the language you’ve been missing. Whether you’re married, dating, parenting, working, or just trying to understand the humans in your life - there's something everyone can take away. Sometimes the problem isn’t love, it's how we show it. (Big thanks to Dr. Chapman for coming on the show, this was one of our favorite podcasts to record!) #podcast #marriage #marriedlife We love to hear from you! Leave us a message at 323-364-3929 or write the show at [email protected]. You can also listen to this show wherever you get podcasts. Learn more about Dr. Gary Chapman: https://5lovelanguages.com/ Follow Dr. Gary Chapman on YouTube: / drgarychapman ___ Follow us: / theholdernessfamily / theholdernessfamily / theholdernessfamily Shop our merch: https://shopholderness.com/ Laugh with us at / @holdernessfamilylaughs Sing along at / @theholdernessfamily We try our best to respond to comments. XO 00:00 Welcome to Laugh Lines! 2:40 Our Love Languages 4:27 A 6th Love Language? 8:04 Welcome Dr. Gary Chapman 8:42 What Are The 5 Love Languages? 17:58 Love Language Dialects 24:46 Speaking Other Languages 32:48 Can Languages Change? 38:34 Introvert vs Extrovert 40:38 Apology Languages 49:41 As The Cookie Crumbles