In this video, I explore John Sarno’s 12 reminders to heal. I will share my thoughts on their relevance to MECFS, fibromyalgia, long Covid and related conditions. ✅ JOIN MY NEWSLETTER FOR MORE TIPS & FREE RESOURCES Get my free Time Out relaxation technique & I will add you to my email list: https://3cnzg0wt.pages.infusionsoft.net ✅ JOIN MY FACEBOOK GROUP FOR RESILIENCE BUILDERS Join here to get lots of free resources designed to help you move forward: / 1002490006565519 ✅ LEARN MORE Tiktok: / mecfsexplored Instagram: / mecfsexplored My website: https://mecfsexplored.com Timestamps: 0:00 – Introduction to Dr. Sarno’s 12 reminders and mind-body healing 1:15 – Medical model vs mind-body model disclaimer 2:30 – Purpose: explore insights, not medical advice 3:15 – Reminder: your discernment is key 4:00 – Guided reflection: connecting to your wise, calm inner self 6:00 – Who was Dr. John Sarno? 6:40 – Definition of TMS (Tension Myositis Syndrome) 7:00 – What are psychosomatic conditions? Clarification that symptoms are real 8:45 – Reminder 1: Pain is due to TMS (not structural issues) 9:45 – Reminder 2: Pain is caused by mild oxygen deprivation 10:20 – Reminder 3: TMS is benign and caused by repressed emotions 11:15 – Suppressed vs repressed emotions explained 13:00 – Why we suppress/repress emotions (e.g. childhood conditioning) 14:15 – Reminder 4: Repressed anger is key (but other emotions may matter too) 16:00 – People pleasing/unassertiveness and hidden rage 17:20 – Reminder 5: TMS distracts from difficult emotions 18:30 – Pain as an unconscious protection against things we don’t want to do 19:45 – Reminder 6: The body is normal – nothing to fear 21:00 – Personal story: M.E./CFS and sympathetic nervous system arousal 22:30 – Healing came from activating parasympathetic state 23:20 – Reminder 7: Physical activity is not dangerous 24:15 – Red/Orange/Green battery levels and activity planning 26:00 – Strategic movement is key – fear burns energy too 27:30 – Reminder 8: Resume all activity (with adaptations for fatigue conditions) 29:00 – Addressing mold, candida, leaky gut and biochemical factors 32:00 – Reminder 9: Don’t fear physical symptoms 33:15 – Shift from catastrophizing to relaxed mindset 34:00 – Use phrases like “I am safe” to retrain the nervous system 35:00 – Reminder 10: Shift attention from physical symptoms to emotional issues 36:15 – Exercise: “What emotion am I feeling right now?” 37:30 – Stories of sudden energy loss triggered by emotional stress 38:30 – Reminder 11: “I am in control, not my subconscious” 39:15 – Recognize and retrain subconscious patterns (e.g., emotional repression) 40:15 – Reminder 12: Think psychological, not physical 41:00 – Avoid fear-based behaviors (e.g., excessive pacing, caution) 42:00 – Final thoughts: take what resonates, discard what doesn’t 43:00 – Mention of the “Building Resilience” group course 43:45 – Closing: you’ve got this – keep going