Why Does a Narcissist Discard You Then Try to Hoover You Back?

Why does a narcissist discard you then try to Hoover you back? We're going to break that down in this video. Hey, I'm Dr. Melissa. I'm a trauma expert and top doctor. And in this video and on this channel, I help you identify the hidden narcissists in your life, identify their impact on your life, and then turn that trauma and that drama into gold becoming stronger and more powerful than you ever were before. If that sounds like exactly what you need, click subscribe, click that notification bell so that you don't miss a thing. Today we're talking about why a narcissist would discard you and then try to Hoover you back? To a neurotypical person, it does not make any sense. Timeline: 00:00 Intro 01:20 Narcissists get supply in two ways. 01:37 Narcissists are deficient or entirely lacking in empathy. 01:54 Narcissists also lack whole object relations and object constancy. 02:13 The typical pattern 03:07 So why does a narcissist discard? 04:27 Your devaluation continues 05:00 The switch flips 05:51 Support / Action Steps End If this resonates with you type, “I'll close the door” in the comments. If you'd like to move forward to be sure that you never end up in a relationship like this again, I invite you to join my 6-month group program, Antifragile Survivors Group. Check it out at http://liveantifragile.com There are five stages from surviving to antifragile. Download my free guide that walks you through the path to see where you're at and what comes next at http://narclesslife.com. You can read more of my writing on Medium   / melissakalt   and I regularly answer questions on Quora https://www.quora.com/profile/Dr-Meli... If you have a topic that you would like me to cover, drop me a line in the comments or on my website https://melissakaltmd.com Dr Melissa