Are You Attracting Toxic People? Here’s Why (And How to Stop)

Gentlemen, let’s have a real conversation. Are You Attracting Toxic People? Here’s Why (And How to Stop) Have you ever noticed that no matter how hard you try to be a good friend, partner, or colleague, you keep ending up with people in your life who drain your energy, disrespect your boundaries, or make you question your own worth? Maybe it’s a friend who always needs something but never gives back, a partner who criticizes more than they support, or a coworker who seems to thrive on drama and negativity. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why do I keep attracting toxic people?”—you’re not alone. This is one of the most common, and most frustrating, patterns I see in my practice. I’m Dr. Johnson, a men’s health specialist and urologist with over five years of experience helping men not just with their physical health, but with the relationships and emotional patterns that shape their lives. Today, I want to break down the real reasons you might be attracting toxic people—and, more importantly, how you can break the cycle and start building healthier, more supportive connections.