#motivation #selfimprovement #psychology #psychologyofpeople Be So Calm It Makes People Nervous Calm isn’t silence — it’s knowing when not to react. This video explains why modern life drains us: a nervous system constantly triggered by messages, looks, and social drama. You’ll learn two forms of calm — Crocodile Calm (strategic, don’t bite the bait) and Elephant Calm (mature, create safety), how to close four energy-leak doors (mouth, eyes, heart, behavior), and a multi-layer pause (5 seconds, 5 minutes, 24 hours) to reclaim control. Calm doesn’t make you cold. It makes you hard to manipulate.