Can I Love Someone and Still Cut Them Off?

Can I love someone and still cut them off? This is a question many people ask after betrayal, emotional abuse, manipulation, or repeated harm—especially when faith has taught them that love means endurance at all costs. Loving someone does not require unlimited access. Boundaries are not a lack of grace. And distance is not the opposite of love. This video explores the difference between love and proximity, why cutting someone off can be an act of wisdom, and how faith does not require self-betrayal or ongoing harm. My name is Vicki Diemert, and I am The Healing Narrative Coach. I help people navigate faith, relationships, and emotional healing after trauma and church hurt—without shame, pressure, or spiritual bypassing. If you’re asking questions like: • Can I love someone and still set boundaries? • Is cutting someone off unchristian? • Does God expect me to stay in harmful relationships? • Can distance be a loving choice? You are not heartless. You are discerning. This channel is for honest conversations about faith, relationships, boundaries, and healing—at the pace of safety and truth. can I love someone and cut them off, faith and boundaries, loving someone from a distance, Christian boundaries, emotional abuse faith, church hurt, trauma informed faith, healthy boundaries, forgiveness and boundaries