Your Pre-Teen Feels Like a Stranger? Here's What's Really Happening

Is your pre-teen changing so fast that you feel like you’re losing the connection you once had? You’re not alone. Many parents of pre-teens struggle to understand sudden pre-teen mood swings, emotional distance, and their child’s growing need for independence. If you’re parenting a 9–12-year-old, this video will help you understand pre-teen behavior, navigate the challenges of pre-teen emotions, and learn how to stay connected with your pre-teen while supporting their growth and confidence. In this video, I explain what’s really happening during the pre-teen years and show you how to raise a pre-teen without losing the connection. From brain development and emotional changes to friendships, self-expression, and growing independence, you’ll gain clarity, peace, and practical parenting tools. As a mom walking through this stage myself, I share real-life experiences, research-backed insights, and gentle guidance to help you stay connected to your pre-teen while supporting their growth into a confident, healthy individual. ✨ In this video, you’ll learn: Why your pre-teen suddenly feels distant The science behind pre-teen behavior and emotions The 3 major shifts every pre-teen goes through How to communicate without pushing them away How to stay emotionally connected during the pre-teen years If you’re parenting a 9–12-year-old and wondering “What happened to my child?” — this video is for you. 💛 You are not doing anything wrong. Your child is growing — and connection is still possible. parenting pre-teens, how to raise a pre-teen, parenting an 11-year-old, pre-teen emotional changes, pre-teen brain development, understanding pre-teens, how to stay connected with your pre-teen, why do pre-teens pull away, parenting advice for pre-teen girls, pre-teen mood swings explained, gentle parenting pre-teens, building strong family relationships, child brain development age 11, Watch my other videos here 👉   • I Was Drowning in the Supermom Fantasy Unt...   👉   • This Is Why Most Marriages Don’t Last— And...   👉   • 10 WAYS TO DISCIPLINE A CHILD WITH LOVE   👉   • Healing After Betrayal: Restoring a Broken...   📚 My books are now available. I poured my heart into them, and I believe they will truly make a lasting impact on your life. I’d love for you to read them ➡️ Unlocking the Secrets to Effective Communication in Marriage https://payhip.com/b/MyUzq ➡️ The Courageous Christian: Living Boldly in a World of Opposition https://payhip.com/b/dRMaZ 👇 DOWNLOAD MY FREE RESOURCE HERE Parenting tips 👉 https://payhip.com/b/nuskP Strengthen your communication in marriage instantly: 👉 https://payhip.com/b/SNYLZ ⏰ 00:00 Understanding Your Pre-Teen & How to Reconnect 00:56 Why It Feels Like You’re Losing Your Pre-Teen 01:24 You’re Not Being Rejected – Identity Development Explained 02:32 From Director to Guide: Your New Parenting Role 02:36 The Science of the Pre-Teen Brain 03:01 Brain Development, Emotions & Puberty Hormones 03:46 Why Pre-Teens Have Mood Swings & Impulsive Behavior 04:36 How to Support Your Pre-Teen Through Big Changes 04:45 Shift 1: Social Self-Discovery & Friendships 05:19 Why Friends Matter More Than Family Right Now 05:36 How to Stay Connected Without Competing With Friends 06:04 Becoming Your Pre-Teen’s Safe Place 06:37 Making Your Home a Safe Social Hub 07:06 Shift 2: Self-Expression, Style & Interests 07:41 Sudden Changes in Interests & Identity 08:02 Supporting Exploration With Healthy Boundaries 08:27 Focus on Feelings, Not Appearance 08:56 Encouraging Creative Outlets for Big Emotions 09:28 Shift 3: Moral Thinking & Questioning Rules 09:45 Why Pre-Teens Question Everything 09:59 Teaching Values Through Conversation 10:30 Using Everyday Moments to Build Moral Reasoning 10:57 The Bigger Picture of Pre-Teen Development 11:31 You Haven’t Lost Your Child – Final Encouragement 12:03 Which Shift Are You Seeing in Your Pre-Teen? (Call to Action) 12:19 Share This Video With Other Parents 12:30 Watch More Parenting & Marriage Videos Subscribe to my channel here 👉    / @carolnathaniel   I'm a mom of 3 and a wife, and my mission is to help families build stronger marriages and raise confident, well-grounded children through simple, practical advice—rooted in wisdom and supported by powerful Bible verses. Connect with me Work Email👉[email protected] #ParentingPreTeens #PreTeenParenting #HowToRaiseAPreTeen #PreTeenBehavior #ParentingTips #Parenting11YearOld #PreTeenEmotions #PreTeenMoodSwings #ParentingAdviceForMoms #UnderstandingPreTeens #StayConnectedWithYourChild #GentleParenting #RaisingConfidentKids #ChildDevelopment #ParentingTipsForParents Disclaimer: The information shared on this channel is meant to inspire, encourage, and offer guidance based on real-life experiences. It does not replace professional counseling or therapy. If you are facing serious parenting or marital challenges, please seek help from a qualified counselor, therapist, or a trusted spiritual advisor.