5 SECRET Tests Avoidants Use BEFORE Coming Back You'll Want To See This!!

#anxiousattachment #breadcrumbing #fearfulavoidant 5 SECRET Tests Avoidants Use BEFORE Coming Back You'll Want To See This!! Have you ever noticed how someone can disappear from your life, say they’re “done,” go completely cold… and then somehow still keep tabs on you? Not directly. Not openly. But just enough that you feel them hovering. Now lean in for a second — because this is the part most men miss. Avoidant partners don’t just “come back” randomly. They don’t wake up one morning overwhelmed by love and suddenly regret everything. That’s a fantasy. What actually happens is far more calculated, quieter, and honestly… uncomfortable once you see it clearly. Before an avoidant ever re-enters your life, they run tests. Not dramatic tests. Not confrontational ones. Subtle ones. Psychological ones. Tests designed to answer one core question: “Is it safe for me to return without losing control?” And here’s the controversial part most relationship advice won’t tell you — these tests aren’t about love. They’re about risk management. Avoidants fear emotional dependence more than they fear losing you. So before they come back, they need proof that you won’t pull them too close, challenge their independence, or expose their vulnerability. Most men fail these tests without even realizing they were being tested. They respond too fast. They explain too much. They try to “prove” growth instead of embodying it. And just like that, the avoidant retreats again — not because you did something wrong, but because you did too much. This video isn’t about villainizing avoidants. It’s about understanding the pattern so you stop personalizing the confusion. I’m going to walk you through five secret tests avoidants commonly use before they come back — explained simply, calmly, and in a way you can actually apply. This channel and its content are provided for educational and informational purposes only and are not intended as medical, psychological, therapeutic, or legal advice. Always seek the guidance of a licensed professional for personal concerns. Any references to individuals, relationships, or scenarios are general examples or fictional composites intended for education and commentary. 🎥 Stock video courtesy of Vecteezy 👉 vecteezy.com #attachmentstyles #attachmenttrauma #commitment #commitmentissues #therapist #datingadvice #datingtips #marriage #marriagetips #understandinghumanbehavior #understandingmen #mentalhealth #understandinghumanbehavior #understandingwomen#divorce #relationship #relationshipanxiety #understandingmen #understandingwomen #anxiousattachmentstyle #anxiety #anxiousattachment #selfimprovement #selflove #selfdevelopment #selfawareness #selfesteem #confidence #selfhelp #attraction #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #avoidant #dismissiveavoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #breadcrumbing #SecureAttachment #SecureAttachmentStyle #breadcrumb #toxicrelationships #healthyrelationships #fearfulavoidant #love