90 Day Fiance’s Kalani Says She ‘Lost Interest’ in Husband Asuelu After Spending Night With Dallas

"90 Day Fiancé Star Kalani Faagata's Relationship Struggles: A Night with Dallas Alters Her Perception of Marriage with Asuelu In a recent episode of the popular reality TV show '90 Day Fiancé,' viewers witnessed a dramatic revelation that has sent shockwaves through Kalani Faagata's marriage to Asuelu Pulaa. On October 16, 2023, Kalani, a 35-year-old mother of two, opened up to her fellow female cast members about a pivotal moment involving her 'hall pass' partner, Dallas Nuez. The revelation unfolded against a backdrop of mounting tensions in her relationship with Asuelu, 28 years old, stemming from his secretive phone activities and allegations of infidelity. Kalani candidly expressed that she had 'lost interest' in her marriage, leading to a constant state of emotional turmoil. The situation escalated when Kalani, deeply hurt by Asuelu's alleged infidelity, disclosed that he had cheated on her '12 times.' As her friends probed her willingness to participate in the commitment ceremony at the end of their resort stay, the uncertainty in her eyes was unmistakable, casting doubt on the future of their relationship. The bombshell dropped on October 9, during an episode, left a lingering unease in the air. Asuelu awoke to an empty bed, only to learn of Kalani's absence. She later confessed to having gone out for breakfast, concealing the truth. However, she eventually confided in her sister, Kolini Faagata, about Dallas flying to see her and their emotional overnight encounter. This incident unfolded amid the backdrop of Kalani and Asuelu's ongoing struggles, particularly linked to his previous infidelity. During the show's premiere on August 14, Kalani revealed Asuelu's betrayal, recounting his unfaithfulness with another woman during his 2022 trip to Samoa. The revelation occurred during a FaceTime call, leading to a confession from Asuelu about an oral sex encounter with the woman. In an attempt to balance the scales, Kalani accepted her 'hall pass' and shared an intimate moment with Dallas, which evolved into a full-fledged affair. Kalani's emotional turmoil was evident as she grappled with her feelings for both Asuelu and Dallas. She expressed her dilemma, saying, 'I never meant to stay in touch with this guy, but I’m also not the type of person that can sleep with someone and just forget about it. I’m torn because I really want to make my marriage work with Asuelu, but I also can’t seem to bring myself to forgive him.' As the season unfolded, Kalani revealed even more painful details about Asuelu's infidelity, shocking viewers by disclosing multiple instances of his cheating, including during her pregnancies with their two sons, Oliver and Kennedy. Her frustration extended beyond Asuelu, as she grappled with her own decisions to shield him from the truth."