SIGNS YOUR FAMILY IS SECRETLY WATCHING Your Every Move |TOXIC FAMILY DYNAMICS
It's rather uncommon that a family member -- even in a toxic family dynamic -- would engage in stalking, harassment, and bullying of other family members. But that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. In fact, research suggests that most stalking behaviors (and sometimes intimate partner crimes) are more common to happen in relationships where the victim knows the perpetrator. And with the influence of social media, tracking devices, cameras, etc. it has become thhat much easier to harass and stalk. In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of being and feeling spied on in family relationships and other relationships. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- #tamarahilllpc #trauma #TOXICFAMILY ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT: 0:00 Intro 6:18 ENMESHMENT 8:53 family enmeshment vs family cohesion 13:09 EMOTIONAL FUSION/enmeshment/diffuse boundaries expected conformity /human conditioning 25:20 CULTURE AND EMOTIONAL FUSION 27:33 spying behaviors/stalking/intimidation through cyber control 47:12 trouble trusting others/being guarded 53:04 COMMON CHALLENGES IN THESE FAMILIES 1:15:41 IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE *discussion in-between content -------------------------------------------------------------------- Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information): 1.) Bowen, M. (1978). Family therapy in clinical practice. Aronson. Kerr, M. E., & Bowen, M. (1988). Family evaluation: An approach based on Bowen theory. WW Norton & Company. 2.) Hesslinger VM, Carbon CC, Hecht H. The Sense of Being Watched Is Modulated by Arousal and Duration of the Perceptual Episode. Iperception. 2017 Dec 4;8(6):2041669517742179. doi: 10.1177/2041669517742179. PMID: 29230277; PMCID: PMC5718310. 3.) Rogers, K. (2018, November 14). What Constant Surveillance Does to Your Brain. VICE; VICE. https://www.vice.com/en/article/what-... 4.) Jonathan Shaw. (2016, December 7). How Surveillance Changes People’s Behavior | Harvard Magazine. Harvard Magazine. https://www.harvardmagazine.com/2016/... 5.) Lampis J, Cataudella S, Agus M, Busonera A, Skowron EA. Differentiation of Self and Dyadic Adjustment in Couple Relationships: A Dyadic Analysis Using the Actor-Partner Interdependence Model. Fam Process. 2019 Sep;58(3):698-715. doi: 10.1111/famp.12370. Epub 2018 Jun 10. PMID: 29888447; PMCID: PMC8028039. ----------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- *CONTACT ME (BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY) I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 15 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at [email protected]. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee. *Send mail to: PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter - / therapisttee Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherap... ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved. Permission must be given before videos are used.
