Why They Ignore You Even When They Want You 2025 - carl jung psychology

Being wanted yet ignored isn’t rejection—it’s often a civil war inside the other person. This cinematic Jungian deep-dive maps shadow, persona, anima/animus, projection, complexes, individuation, and synchronicity—plus practical tools to heal without closure. What You’ll Learn: Read silence without self-blame; spot projection/complexes; withdraw anima/animus; build individuation capacity; use timing rituals; convert ache into growth. Key Insight: Love worth trusting is about capacity and timing, not chemistry alone. Timestamps 04:10 Part 1: Desire vs. Fear (the inner referendum) 08:50 Part 2: Shadow & Emotional Repression 15:20 Practices: 3N, Dose Contact, Shadow Journal 18:30 Part 3: Persona — when masks panic near truth 24:40 Micro-consent & “De-Role” drill 27:30 Part 4: Anima/Animus — recognition ≠ readiness 34:00 Practices: Name the borrowed function, Active Imagination 37:30 Part 5: Projection & Complexes — seeing now vs then 44:00 Repairs & the Now/Then tools 46:40 Part 6: Individuation Gap — why love can feel like death 53:30 The 90-Day Bridge (inner/relational/embodied) 55:40 Part 7: Synchronicity & Timing — when meaning says “not yet” 58:00 Part 8: Healing Without Closure + Code of Contact 59:30 Closing — Two yeses or bless it #JungianPsychology #AttachmentHealing #DepthPsychology