People Hurt You Only for These 2 Deep Reasons | Alan Watts

What if love isn’t about seeing someone clearly… but recognizing your own reflection? This video guides you through the hidden architecture of attraction—how people fall in love with not you, but the emotions, memories, and longings you evoke within them. Drawing from Jungian psychology and spiritual insight, we unpack the two main reasons why people truly fall in love: the comfort of the familiar and the desire for what’s missing. You’ll explore the subtle world of projection, emotional transference, and the healing power of conscious presence. From ancient wounds to ecstatic illusions, this is not a video about romance—it's about awakening. If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or intensely desired for all the wrong reasons, this message will meet you where you are… and invite you back to yourself.