10 red flags of a toxic friendship and how to actually let go | july self-love book club

hi angel, welcome to your safe space 🫶🏼 what if the friend that's draining you isn't a bad person- they're just bad for you? all july we've been talking about community, connection, softness, and making friends as an adult. this week we're flipping it over. how do you spot a toxic friendship, and what do you actually do about it? we're pulling from one chapter of our self-love book club pick of the month, Finding Your People by Alexandra Hourigan and Sally McMullen of Two Broke Chicks- the red flags they name, plus my own stories about one-uppers, the friend who wouldn't stop gossiping, and the friendship breakup i'm fresh out of. a note before you press play: this episode is about toxic friendships, not abuse. that's a different conversation and it deserves a professional. resources are linked below. 🌊 self-love book club meets on the beach this Wednesday, July 29 to recap Finding Your People- if you're local, come hang! sign up for the monthly meetup membership: https://www.theselflovearchives.com/t... 📖 join our free book club community on the Fable app: https://www.fable.co/club/self-love-b... ❤️ the Love Yourself More Card Deck- 100 questions to know yourself better: https://www.theselflovearchives.com/l... 💬 tell me which red flag hit hardest! next week we kick off August and our theme, releasing control and being flexible. same time, Sunday 12PM EST open for my details ↓ 🛍 shop my amazon storefront → https://www.amazon.com/shop/beautybyj... 🛍 shop my LTK → https://www.shopltk.com/explore/julia... 📧 connect with me → [email protected] 🫶🏼 just in case you can't get enough: →TIK TOK   / juliasalvia   →INSTAGRAM   / beautybyjulia   →PINTEREST   / beautybyjulia   🏖 🌮 recipes, food, + new jersey experiences/restaurants →TIK TOK   / jerseygirldiaries   →INSTAGRAM   / jerseygirldiaries   💖 the self-love archives →TIK TOK   / theselflovearchives   →INSTAGRAM   / theselflovearchive   💰 save some moolah 5 MINUTE JOURNAL by INTELLIGENT CHANGE https://bit.ly/46cKZ48 save 10% with my code "JULIA10" LIQUID IV https://bit.ly/463Dw7D save 20% with my code "BEAUTYBYJULIA" TARTE https://bit.ly/3NfigTz save 15% with my code "JULIA" DOLL 10 https://bit.ly/42Kt1Do save 15% with my code "JULIA" MODA BRUSH https://bit.ly/3CBSYKs save 10% with my code "JULIA" OFRA https://bit.ly/3q5PCIg save 10% with code "JULIA" PURLISSE https://bit.ly/3lkqyed save 30% with code "JULIA" YENSA https://bit.ly/34DZiSe save 30% with my code "JULIA" p.s. you are always more than enough 💕