Jill Zarin Supported By Bethenny Frankel More RHONY Cast Members At Husbands Funeral. That’s what friends are for! Jill Zarin’s ‘Real Housewives of New York’ co-stars were there for her at the funeral for her late husband Bobby. See pics from the funeral here. Gone, but truly not forgotten. Following the devastating death of Bobby Zarin to cancer at the age of 71, friends of his widow Jill Zarin, 54, came out in droves at his funeral on Jan. 15 to support her during this extremely difficult time — especially her co-stars on The Real Housewives of New York City. Bethenny Frankel, 47, arrived to the solemn event held at Riverside Memorial in New York City fashionably wearing a black hat, jacket and gloves along with some stilettos. Bethenny and Jill might not have always been on the best terms, but the two former enemies put aside their differences for the sad day. Sometimes tragic life events puts everything into perspective! Also in attendance were ROHNY‘s Kelly Bensimon, 49, Sonja Morgan, 54, and more. Check out all of the attendees in our gallery above!