Hurt An Avoidant's EGO And They Will Love You Madly | The Secret To Making Them Obsessed | Part 2

#avoidantattachment , #avoidantattachmentstyle , #relationshipadvice , #attachmentstyle , #dismissiveavoidant Hurt An Avoidant's EGO And They Will Love You Madly | The Secret To Making Them Obsessed In this 28-minute motivational deep dive, we unpack “Hurt An Avoidant's EGO And They Will Love You Madly | The Secret To Making Them Obsessed” – not as a toxic game, but as a psychology lesson in self-respect, boundaries and impact. You’ll learn how an avoidant’s ego is built on distance, emotional control and the quiet belief that you’ll always be there no matter how little they give. We’ll break down exactly why they take you for granted when you over-give, chase and explain – and why their attraction and obsession rise the moment you stop feeding their ego and quietly step back into your own power. This video is not about cruelty or manipulation. It’s about the moment you stop protecting their comfort and start protecting your heart. When their ego is finally bruised by your absence, your standards and your calm “no more,” that’s when they feel the real impact of losing you – and their behavior starts to change. ⏱ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 🔥 What this video is really about – ego, impact and power 02:10 🧠 Inside an avoidant’s ego – why they act like they don’t need you 04:40 😶 How chasing, over-texting and over-giving feed their ego 07:20 🪫 The slow damage to your self-worth when you keep proving yourself 10:00 ⚡ What actually “hurts” an avoidant’s ego (it’s not yelling or long messages) 12:30 🚪 The turning point – stepping back from calm self-respect, not punishment 15:00 👀 Early signs their ego is bruised and they can’t stop thinking about you 17:30 🧲 How a shaken ego quietly turns into obsession, curiosity and pursuit 20:00 🚫 What NOT to do when they start chasing (no revenge, no games, no tests) 22:00 🌱 How to receive their new effort without dropping your standards 24:00 🌈 Using this dynamic to build healthier patterns, not a toxic loop 27:00 ❤️ Final reminder: the real secret isn’t their obsession – it’s your self-respect 💡 WHY WATCH THIS VIDEO To understand how ego, avoidance and attraction are connected, so you stop blaming yourself for their distance and mixed signals. To discover the one powerful shift in your behavior that naturally creates more respect, pursuit and emotional investment – without tricks. To learn how to hold your boundaries and energy when they finally start chasing, instead of collapsing back into people-pleasing. To turn painful avoidant patterns into a new standard of self-worth, emotional safety and healthier love – with them or with someone better. 🔖 HASHTAGS #avoidantattachment , #avoidantattachmentstyle , #relationshipadvice , #attachmentstyle , #dismissiveavoidant , #emotionallyunavailable , #attachmenttheory , #datingadvice , #relationshippsychology , #toxicrelationships , #anxiousattachmentstyle , #healingjourney , #selfworth , #selflove , #mindsetshift 🔍 KEYWORDS hurt an avoidants ego and they will love you madly the secret to making them obsessed, hurt an avoidants ego and they will love you madly, hurt an avoidants ego the secret to making them obsessed, the secret to making an avoidant obsessed with you, avoidant attachment ego dynamics, avoidant obsessed with you psychology, how to make an avoidant respect you, stop feeding an avoidants ego, no contact and avoidant obsession, high value behavior with avoidant partner, relationship advice for anxious attachment, emotionally unavailable partner psychology, healing after avoidant relationship, self respect in relationships, how to stop chasing avoidant partner ⚠️ DISCLAIMER This video is 100% original content created specifically for this channel. The full script, structure and ideas are created with AI under my direction and are not copied from any other creator, book, course or YouTube channel. All voiceover and images are created or edited using AI tools and properly licensed resources. I do NOT download, reuse or re-upload anyone else’s videos, shorts, audio or images. There is no intention to bypass, trick or “circumvent” YouTube’s systems or policies. Everything is uniquely produced for this channel in full alignment with YouTube’s guidelines on original content, reused content and circumvention policy. This content is for education, motivation and personal growth only and is not professional psychological, therapeutic, legal or medical advice. If you are experiencing intense emotional pain, anxiety, depression or trauma, please reach out to a qualified mental-health professional or local support service in your area.