Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they just recently discovered erotic hypnosis and they’re having such a good time they keep going back to it luckily their wife is not complaining and they’re having a great sex life but the gentlemen that wrote in said he’s a little concern because they’re going back to it so often and then he’s having good orgasm. How much semen can I have in my life in my late 30’s, should I be worried? Should I stop what I’m doing? They’re going back many times day for erotic hypnosis and sex. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheInitmacyDojo.com Cathy: You should have one of those watches, you have your tux on, you can [Inaudible 00:00:42] you can do it right now. Reid: There’s nothing really to swing here. So the sounds like, you keep your eyes on the rubber duck. The sounds like I’m wearing a tuxedo because the Airlines lost my luggage and all I have was my little suit bag which had a tux on it so were tuxecinated out today. The sounds like a non-problem in a way so my questions are, is everybody having fun, if you’re in a relationship is this positively impacting your relationship rather than… Cathy: And you’re still showing up for work. Reid: Yeah if there’s not a problem then the problem is you have an abundance issues and the things are great although there is also like things are going so great but there some sort of unpredictable or unpredicted consequence that I’m not seeing that might show up. So from that perspective is not like shame or I’m an addict to something like that. I don’t know maybe you’ll have so much sex you’re tired and you need to take a break. Cathy: But there’s no medical contraindication of sex more than a certain time number of times a day or certain amount of time. Reid: You don’t know well they’re having studies on rats and there have been rats who have died from having too much sex if that was because they kept having sex and forgot to eat not because the sex kill them. Cathy: So make sure you take meal breaks. Reid: Yeah are you being a normal human being who happens to having a lot of sex and if it’s not negatively impacting your relationships and you’re not breaking existing relationships agreements and things like that it sounds like you’re having a hoot. Cathy: And you might have tapped in to process that feels really good physically and it’s very erotic to you at the same time and there’s a real sweet spots. Reid: Sure. Then like let us on like who like how do I get on with this like let’s leave some links on the commentds my friends but at the same it’s a great questions. It’s great to be concerned and just have a check in like is this okay? And for I know about erotic hypnosis and having a lot of sex although certainly you can be having unsafe sex and not taking care of your body and you could I guess erotic hypnosis could be used for evil purposes and in the fairestly or you could breaking agreements. Those things would be bad. Cathy: It doesn’t sounds his wife is upset so I think she’s happy. Reid: Work it on last but not the least around men the comment among in your late 30’s is just a bad thing that you’re having so many orgasms. I would invite you to explore what erotic hypnosis is like and your love life with your loved ones and always having to ejaculate for sex to happen. There’s some Dawes sexuality principles and ideas and tantra in such about like your spilling your life force which again ejaculation is a choice and it was interesting for when I want an orgasm fast for a while and practice masturbating without ejaculating and kinda conserving my sexual energy now that was interesting for me to try that out so maybe there’s a value there to try it out and I know some people that do Dawes sexuality practices and they can shame people for ejaculating and I don’t really believe in that so maybe that’s helpful. Cathy: I think if you’re enjoying it, you’re taking care of your life and your body and your relationships just enjoy the good thing that is happening in life. Reid: And if it starts to fade and it’s not working anymore I don’t think anything’s broke too. I think part of what’s interesting about human beings is that we get excited about new things and sometimes those things shift. So don’t beat yourself up or think that you’re broken if its starts to lose its flavor or zing enjoy what you got while you got it. Just keep on exploring and being curious. Thanks for leaving a comment.