Sometimes the red flags aren’t actions—they’re words. Things said casually. Things said confidently. Things said so often that you start questioning your own intuition. In this powerful and heartfelt message, Sarah Jakes Roberts unpacks five statements a man can say that are not invitations for conversation, explanation, or endurance—but clear signs it’s time to walk away. This message is not about bitterness or blame. It’s about clarity, discernment, and honoring the boundaries God placed within you. If you’ve ever found yourself shrinking to keep a relationship together, explaining away behavior that keeps hurting you, or waiting for potential to turn into progress, this word is for you. You’ll learn how certain phrases reveal emotional unavailability, manipulation, avoidance of accountability, and imbalance—long before actions ever do. More importantly, you’ll be reminded that walking away doesn’t mean you failed at love. Sometimes it means you finally chose yourself. If this message resonates, share it with a sister, a friend, or anyone who needs the courage to stop ignoring what their spirit already knows. 00:00 – This message is about discernment, not bitterness 02:15 – When “this is just how I am” is a warning 06:10 – “You’re too sensitive” and emotional invalidation 10:05 – Why refusing labels creates imbalance 14:20 – “You’re lucky I chose you” and subtle manipulation 18:45 – Promises of change without action 23:30 – Walking away as wisdom, not weakness Sarah Jakes Roberts, Sarah Jakes Roberts motivation, Sarah Jakes Roberts relationships, Christian relationship advice, dating red flags, toxic relationship signs, when to walk away, women empowerment sermon, emotional manipulation signs, godly dating advice, self worth for women, healing from toxic relationships, boundaries in relationships, faith based motivation, motivational speech for women #SarahJakesRoberts #RelationshipAdvice #KnowYourWorth #WalkAway #EmotionalHealing #WomenOfFaith #DatingWithDiscernment #RedFlags #ChooseYou #MotivationForWomen Which one of these statements have you heard before—and what did it cost you to ignore it? Your story might be the confirmation someone else needs today 🤍