When You and The Avoidant Both Stop Contacting — What Happens Next Will Shock You

You and the avoidant both stop contacting each other — but silence doesn’t mean it’s over. Here’s what really happens next, backed by psychology and attachment research. ⏱️ Timestamps 0:00 - Why silence feels so heavy for both sides 1:12 - The avoidant’s initial relief phase 2:45 - When the silence starts echoing back 4:10 - How your emotional energy begins to shift 5:35 - The avoidant’s fear of being forgotten 7:05 - “Deactivation regret” — when they realize what they lost 8:20 - What this silence truly reveals about both of you If you’ve been wondering “Do avoidants come back after no contact?”, “Why is my avoidant ex silent?”, or “How long does it take an avoidant to miss you?” — this video breaks down the real psychological stages avoidants go through during mutual silence, and what it reveals about your healing process too. 📚 Grounded in attachment theory and supported by findings from the University of California, along with real client experiences in anxious-avoidant relationship recovery. This isn’t about guessing their feelings — it’s about understanding the emotional mechanics behind the silence. 🎥 Subscribe to The Paradox of Being for weekly deep-dives into attachment theory, relationship psychology, and emotional healing. ⚠️ This content is for educational purposes — it’s about awareness and growth, not manipulation or game-playing.