When he gets close and then cools off, it's not a game: it's self-protection. In light of Carl Jung's analytical psychology, this video explains why many men test women when they feel something deep: anima projections, shadow activation, fear of losing control, and the tension between control and surrender. You will understand the signs of testing (withdrawal after intimacy, contradiction between words and actions, subtle provocations), how to respond with boundaries, and how to transform the cycle of sabotage into conscious bonding. Comment "I'm ready to look beyond the facade," like, and subscribe for weekly content on Jungian psychology in relationships. #CarlJung #JungianPsychology #ConsciousRelationship #AnimaAndShadow #EmotionalMaturity #SelfSabotage #FeminineBoundaries #Projection #Individuation #ConsciousLove Why men test women, unconscious male tests in flirting, Carl Jung's anima and shadow in relationships, male fear of emotional intensity, why he withdraws after getting close, signs of male self-sabotage in love, control versus surrender at the beginning of a relationship, archetypal projection and idealization, how to respond to his emotional withdrawal, feminine boundaries without losing connection, conscious relationship according to Jung, when his shadow appears in dating, why he provokes and then cools off, individuation and affective maturity in couples, understanding his disappearance and return, dynamics of proximity and distance in love, how not to become a projection screen, tests of loyalty and patience at the beginning, differentiation between neediness and presence, practical steps to break the cycle of testing.