Struggling with stage fright? Here’s the mindset shift that SET. ME. FREE. #howtosingbetter

For years, I had crippling stage fright. I yearned to be in the spotlight—and yet I was terrified to truly be seen and heard. What a conundrum, right? The thing I wanted most… was also the thing I feared the most. I used to spiral with thoughts like: “What are they thinking about me? Do they hate my voice? Are they bored? Am I enough?” But everything changed when I made one powerful shift: I stopped performing to get validation— and started performing to connect. When connection becomes more important than approval, you become unstoppable. Now I step on stage and think: “Hey, I’m having a blast up here—whether you love me or hate me. At least you’re feeling something.” I receive my validation from within. From above. I already love my voice. I have fun with my voice. I laugh with myself and with my bandmates. I don’t need that validation from the audience—and that makes all the difference. Now! Don’t get me wrong! I still practice & work my butt off, but because I care about the quality of my work & my art. Not so I can impress anyone. Make it suit your preferences. Your taste. Your standards! That shift—from fear to freedom, from validation to connection—is everything. And if I can get there, you can too. Comment “SING” to get access to my free masterclass: Yes, You CAN Sing. Let’s free that voice!!! Shout out to my amazing music partner who gives 0 f*cks with me! 😆😆 #StageFright #VocalFreedom #WyldeVoices #YesYouCanSing #PerformanceConfidence #TheSexySinger #singforconnection