Why You Attract Toxic Men (It's Not What You Think)

📖 GET MY BOOK "FREE TO BE": https://www.amazon.com/Free-Be-Pathwa... 🎓 NEW DIGITAL COURSE: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com 📝 QUIZ: Are You a People Pleaser or Perfectionist? https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz... If you keep attracting the same guy—super into you at first, then pulls away, gives you the 2 a.m. booty call, says "I'm not ready for a relationship"—this video is for you.You've been told you lack self-love or your expectations are too high. But here's what nobody told you: You keep drawing in toxic men because you have people-pleasing tendencies. 📚 RESOURCES:📖 My Book: "Free to Be: A Pathway to Inner Liberation" https://www.amazon.com/Free-Be-Pathwa... 🎓 6-Week Digital Course https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com DM me on Instagram "FREEDOM" 🎧 Podcast: "Masks Off for People Pleasers & Perfectionists" Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMq... Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... ⏰ TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - If you keep attracting the same toxic guy 00:34 - Why people pleasers attract controllers (the perfect storm) 01:13 - Client story: Couldn't see friends without boyfriend's approval 02:10 - Sign #1: "If I'm just nicer, he'll treat me better" 02:57 - Sign #2: Ignoring red flags to avoid being judgy 03:51 - Sign #3: Changing yourself to match him 05:01 - Sign #4: Can't leave even though you should 06:07 - What trauma bonding really is 06:36 - Step 1: Awareness of your patterns 06:55 - Step 2: Taking ownership (he won't change) 07:54 - Step 3: You CAN leave - healing the wound 09:12 - Step 4: Healthy communication and boundaries 09:37 - Client success story: Freed after 3 years 10:18 - It won't happen overnight 11:03 - It's not your fault 11:36 - Join "Real & Unfiltered" community 12:23 - DM "FREEDOM" if interested 💬 CONNECT: Instagram:   / kimgrosscoaching   Website: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com If this resonated: 👍 LIKE to help other women break free 💬 COMMENT "FREEDOM" to join the community 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for weekly unmasking sessions ➡️ SHARE with a woman stuck in toxic patterns #toxicrelationships #PeoplePleasing #EmotionallyUnavailable #DatingAdvice #KimGross #TraumaBonding #Controller #ToxicMen #PeoplePleaserRecovery #HealthyRelationships #BoundariesMatter #WomenIn20s #DatingPatterns #MasksOff #BreakTheCycleRemember: It's not your fault. You were conditioned this way. But you CAN learn something different. 💙