I made this video from my experience in going through the 'selecting a headstone' for my son's grave. His stone was placed in late 2012, I put captions in the video which is how I felt leading up to seeing it for the first time, I hope this will make sense and perhaps ease the burden for someone who will be going thru this process, I love his stone, its unique yet it will always be bittersweet because of the pain it represents, however I try to look at it as In Memory of his Life..it took me forever to make it because the tears kept streaming down....I miss him terribly and always will, love you all....Jeff MENDING HEARTS GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP (FaceBook Page)