Purgation while alive is the only way to avoid purgatory fire. https://www.christusway.com/ ChristusWay thoughts help align a life with the Rosary to start purgation. To enjoy one's true self, one has to be 'yoked' with Christ. To become yoked, sanctifying grace should rule a person. The one with Christ is a true star. A True star lead people to the manger of Jesus. St. Anthony of Padua: "The saints are like the stars." 33 Days Fatima, Marian Consecration. https://www.christusway.com/