I used to be my family's ATM. Every month: rent, bills, "emergencies," you name it. My bank account? Always empty. My family? Always asking for more. Then I did the most selfish thing I've ever done—I said no. In this video, I'm breaking down: Why saying yes to family was keeping me broke The exact moment I stopped being their bank (and what happened next) How to set money boundaries without the guilt The 5 levels of financial selfishness that changed my net worth What my family said vs. what my bank account said If you're tired of being everyone's financial safety net while you can't even afford your own life, this one's for you. Have you ever said no to a family money request? What happened? Drop your story below—I read every comment. And if you're in your villain era and ready to protect your peace (and your bank account), hit subscribe. We're building wealth over here, not resentment.