97% Of Older Men Don't Realise Girls Ask THIS To Hit On You - Esther Perel

#estherperel #relationship #psychology #estherperel #relationship #psychology 🚫 There are 8 specific questions younger women ask older men that seem like casual conversation but are actually loaded invitations to deeper connection. 97% of men answer these questions at surface level, completely oblivious to the subtext, while the opportunity to create genuine attraction slips away. In this revealing 45-minute masterclass, learn to decode the real meaning behind these seemingly innocent questions and discover how to respond in ways that build chemistry instead of killing it. 💔 Drawing from Esther Perel's insights into feminine communication patterns, these questions aren't random small talk. They're strategic information gathering, interest signaling, and connection building wrapped in socially acceptable conversation. When you understand what's really being asked, you can respond in ways that demonstrate value, create intrigue, and deepen attraction. 🔥 The 8 Questions That Signal Interest: "What do you do?" - She's assessing purpose, status, and passion, not just career - "Do you come here often?" - She's creating framework for future interaction - "How do you know people here?" - She's evaluating your social value and positioning - "What are you drinking?" - She's creating excuses to extend proximity and time - "Are you here alone?" - She's determining availability and confidence - "What do you do for fun?" - She's testing if you're interesting beyond work - "Are you single?" - She's qualifying you as a romantic possibility - "What's your story?" - She's giving you maximum opening to create connection 💡 Why Men Miss These Opportunities: You're answering the literal question while completely missing the underlying invitation. You're giving boring, surface-level responses that end conversations instead of deepening them. You're not recognizing that these questions are her way of hitting on you. 🧠 The Psychology of Indirect Interest: Women, especially younger women approaching older men, don't express interest directly. They create openings through questions that seem innocent but are actually testing your confidence, value, and ability to engage beyond surface level. ⚠️ Critical Truth: These questions only get asked when she's already somewhat interested. She's giving you an opportunity to either amplify that interest through how you respond or kill it through boring, self-deprecating, or oblivious answers. 🎯 Transform Your Responses: Stop answering questions literally and start understanding what's really being asked. Learn to respond in ways that demonstrate value without bragging, create intrigue without being mysterious for mystery's sake, and invite deeper connection without being needy. 🔥 Hashtags: #HiddenSignals #EstherPerel #FeminineInterest #DecodingQuestions #SubtextCommunication #AttractionBuilding #ConversationalIntelligence #ReadingBetweenLines #OlderMenYoungerWomen #SmartResponses #SocialCalibration #RecognizingInterest #EffectiveCommunication #BuildingChemistry #ConversationalMastery Disclaimer: This channel is not officially affiliated with Esther Perel or her estate. The content presented is inspired by Esther Perel’s teachings and psychology, shared with the intent to motivate, inspire, and support personal growth and relationships. The voice used is a synthesized voice and does not belong to Esther Perel. Our goal is to respectfully share her insights in an inspiring way, with no intention to deceive or misrepresent. All opinions and interpretations expressed are solely those of the creator and do not represent the official views of Esther Perel or her team. For a deeper understanding of her work, please refer to her original books, talks, and recordings.