Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved | Esther Perel

Why do people cheat? Is infidelity always the end of a relationship—or could it be the start of a deeper conversation? In this video, we unpack psychotherapist Esther Perel’s revolutionary perspective on betrayal, desire, and the messy complexities of modern love. Drawing from her viral TED Talk, “Rethinking Infidelity,” Perel challenges us to move beyond black-and-white judgments and ask: ✅ What unmet needs or hidden longings drive infidelity? ✅ Can a relationship survive an affair—and even grow stronger? ✅ How has technology reshaped cheating in the digital age? Whether you’ve experienced betrayal, questioned your own choices, or simply want to understand the psychology behind love’s toughest challenges, this video offers a compassionate, thought-provoking lens on one of humanity’s oldest dilemmas. 💬 Join the conversation: Have you or someone you know navigated infidelity? What questions does this topic raise for you? Share your thoughts in the comments below. 📚 Resources & Further Watching: Watch Esther Perel’s full TED Talk: [Link to TED Talk] Explore her book “The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity” 👍 If this video resonated with you, please: → LIKE ✔️ → SUBSCRIBE 🔔 (Turn on notifications!) → SHARE with someone who needs to hear this. 📌 Timestamps: 0:00 - Why Infidelity Isn’t What You Think 1:45 - Esther Perel’s Key Insights 4:10 - The Hidden “Why” Behind Cheating 6:30 - Can Love Survive Betrayal? 8:15 - Your Stories & Questions 🔗 Disclaimer: This video is inspired by Esther Perel’s work and is intended for educational/discussion purposes. We do not own rights to her original TED Talk. #Infidelity #Relationships #EstherPerel #LoveAndBetrayal #TEDTalks #MentalHealth #DatingAdvice