There comes a time in every person's life when you achieve a moment of clarity. A time when all you have been feeling and working for is summed up, made sense of, and it hits you like a ton of bricks. That moment hit me a few days ago. I would like to share it with you. It Seemed appropriate that this happened at the New Year, when many of us are looking for new direction and purpose. I hope my words and tears help you like they helped me.